With the recent upswing in sext-ing (of which, admittedly, I’ve done my share) and nude picture scandals (just today, it was announced that “Miss Sprint Cup’s (???) title will be revoked due to some nude pictures that have appeared on the internet [they were “only for her boyfriend”of course]), not to mention Brett Farve’s all-too-recent scandal) has got me thinking. Quite a large number of my friends (both female and male) have sent AND received similar images (and not just one or two, either; several).
Is this something that’s commonplace? Is this a new trend, a new facet, in the digital (and non-digital) dating world?
I’ve been dating for near on eight years, and not once, not once, has a woman ever sent me a titillating picture message.
I’m not even saying I want them. I’m just curious if I’m missing the approach, some how. To be fair, I’ve never sent any either (the male…anatomy…isn’t something that cries out for amateur photography, if you ask me; not to mention the seemingly-inevitable damage that comes from them when they’re inevitably leaked), and I’ve never blatantly asked for someone to send me some, either (that just seems…strange).
Either I’m A) clueless or B) dating, dare I say it, a classier caliber of women?
I’m anxious to hear a few takes on this.
M-
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